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CANLOVE shadow kid guidance
A shadow kid smile light up
Will you listen to the "shadow kid" story?
Childhood hurt, often becomes child lifetime’s nightmare. Psychologist researches point out, a child with childhood incurring psychology wound, there will be 22 kinds psychologies crises of vital trial: forcing behavior, indulging behavior and so on emotion suffering crisis; shadow in children, if it is able to give them concerns as soon as possible, the sunshine in growing up can be much deeply emblazed!
"I hope I have no childhood" Hsiao Tsao (incognito), an abuse elementary school student tells us. He already suffers melancholy. We know he owns a different life. How it will be better, if we can accompany him earlier!
Shadow kid - - the words root in the child with shadow in heart. These children at their childhood were stimulated by the family or society and brought forth shadow and pain in heart.
Shadow kid for child melancholy is a high dangerous crowd. They face harder childhood. When a child lost his parents or relatives, injured his body of heart and has serious abuse before 12 years old; When a child has a family of melancholy and psychosis, or has a family with indulging in wine and drugs, or has a serious chronic disease of physiology; All these experience will transform and become crisis for grown up. How to encourage and help shadow kid to walk out of shadow in heart and how to deepen into children hearts of helplessness sense become CANLOVE association’s deep wish. CANLOVE hopes to be able to assemble strength and to go forward to push shadow kid game treatment service scheme.
Ma Jie Hospital's psychiatry department director, CANLOVE association syndic Liu Xun Ying expresses, when during the course of becoming mature, the shadow kid encounters huge pressure and torture, and these affect their development. For example: having serious chronic disease of physiology, emotion obstacle, slow development, behavior deviation, individual characteristics impulsion, bad human relationship, losing sense of security and so on…..We should pay more attention to and be more concerned about shadow kid.
"I do not know who I am" Da Li rabbit in paint book asks all forests to look for himself
According to ministry of interior child bureau several year passed statistics, the numbers of the abuse kids cases is from 4112 people in 1998, increases to 6209 people in 2003, 8494 people in 2004, and has already reached near upon 10000 people in 2005. Year by year redoubles the number. It startled us.
There are announced numbers make us harrowed. And there are unannounced numbers make us dare not to think. Child abuse and domestic violence incident have already become serious. Many shadow kids leave primordial family, their psychology, emotion and society level' s affection still abidingly exist, even come along with him/her lifetime.
Face shadow kid. When we look at these child facing the fear in deep heart layer and in anxious life dark night time, we then pray that we can have more strength to assist these children, and can unchain the yokes in these child' s mind one by one. Let children do not worry to grow up.
"I do not know who I am" Da Li rabbit in paint book asks all forests to look for himself, accompanies shadow kid to retrieve oneself under own regard. We start inviting and aggregating Ma Ji Hospital' s Luo Qiu Yi psychology Teacher (…… …) and so on, to proceed guidance job.
In 2006, altogether 8 psychology tutor teachers, with CANLOVE association probe into shadow kid’s deep heart emotion story. By means of each paint book story, under the lead of the tutor teacher and assistant, enlightens child' s spontaneity, aggrandizes self arouse motivity, eliminates child frustrate sense, aggrandizes group and self relation, arouses child's fancy, practices interaction in group course, guides child again to admit emotional realness, all is CANLOVE association's shadow kid rescue aim.
Open paint book Hear child's laugh with tears
A story, like drawing an emotion's lint, helps to open child’s close mind. Recollecting these days at orphanage, we feel, at deep cooperation and in observing, that the shadow kid is well looked after. However, there are too many children and most of them are not very good at expressing emotion. When face the shadow in heart, they then naturally endure and oppress their emotion to form mind corner's reef unconsciously. In addition, they leave home to live with other children in orphanage, and in environment of special socializing emotion crisis everywhere. Premature constructing self defense mechanism and sense of security crisis, and highly depending on emotion indulging and hiding forces, to shadow kid, all becomes melancholy’s hotbed. Many shadow kids have started from junior high school to take medicine to resist melancholy. The depression phenomenon founded in their early stages actually lets us worry.
“Hsiao Jin, go, go, go!” Let us say to her together before class dismiss!
Hsiao Jin (incognito) is a unique daughter in her family. She suffers from light intelligence insufficient disease. Her parent had her at older age. When she first came to the orphanage, the teachers worried that she would affect the teachers and schoolmates during studying. After evaluation, the teachers adjust course's plan to help her study and able to interact with group. It promotes her wisdom's growth. Then in course, Hsiao Jin started like to act and to play the role in the story to communicate with others. Every child is naturally born an actor. At perform, she performs her own happiness. We have already not known when it starts that she already becomes the most popular angel.
“Hsiao Jin, go, go, go!” Let us say to her together before class dismiss!
That moment Hsiao Jin's smile is really like a little angel
A series of paint book story tutor pass！We and children unwillingly say good- bye！But we know, the story does not come to the end yet. At the start of next class of love, "Hsiao Jin!” will remember the role she promised, to show the happiest herself !
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